Author: Brian

Returned Peace Corps Volunteer, Systems Engineer, Papa, and eccentric individual.

I am constantly conflicted with building my LinkedIn and online persona, and my desire for privacy and anonymity.

Why I Love Freecycle

The power of Craiglist and Freecycle

When my wife and I moved away to be Peace Corps volunteers, we gave away nearly everything we owned before we left. We didn’t know how long we were going to be gone, and knowing the value of a dollar, the thought of renting a storage locker was out of the question. We made some people very happy, even though towards the end of our time in the US, we wouldn’t let a friend leave the apartment unless they took something with them.

Craiglist
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Fast forward three years back to our reuniting with life in the US. We first touched down in Hawaii, and began anew our desire to own things and furnish a place to live. I believe it all started with a small french press we found on the free shelf at a backpackers in Waikiki. Although we didn’t settle for a few months after that, eventually I found a job and subsequently an apartment. Then we found out just how much we love Craiglist, Freecycle, and people leaving stuff on the sidewalk in general.

We have furnished a lot of our apartment for the price of walking down the street a few miles. Sometimes we take the metro, but often a collecting mission is a good reason to get some exercise and fresh air.

I’m not just talking about the occasional freebie, besides the fresh air we have received for free:

coffee table
Linksys wrt110 router
6 sets of wooden shelves
2 sets of metal wire shelves
2 floor lamps
rolling desk chair
food processor (this was a long walk)
blank CDs and DVDs
bedside table
futon with mattress and cover
Large really nice mirror with wood frame
curtains and curtain rods
boppy pillow (I admit I just had to Google search what this is. My wife got it.)
pregnancy pillow
birthing ball
baby bouncer
baby food processor & steamer
multiple throw pillows
milk crates
nice table lamp with rice paper shade
bed risers
bed frame & box spring (two separate trips, two separate days, two separate Craigslist ads, but same people)
kitchen towel rack
baby swing
bottle sterilizer
TONS of baby clothes and blankets. (enough for different outfit everyday I think)
a few baby toys
baby bjorn
heart beat blanket
baby books
mobile
playmat
fuzzy bucket seat cover (like a blanket for the entire car seat)
2 baby bathtubs, infant & toddler
big bag of scrap fabric
40+ lightbulbs (still trying to give the excess away)
ironing board
toaster

Update 5/16/2015

Another glider

bumbo seat

more baby clothes

2 brestpumps, bottles, bags, nursing bra

An amazing foam tile ABC set

Solids feeding supplies for baby – cups, plates, bowls. High quality stuff.

And I’m sure I’ve forgotten something. In the meantime I’ve given away a few things, a flat screen monitor, an older laptop, and the router I mentioned earlier. Craigslist and Freecycle can’t be underestimated.

With as much as we gave up when we left, the kindness of strangers in the US have definitely given us more than we could have asked for. Perhaps it was living without so many amenities for those three years, but I feel triumphant at the power of giving, and the power of saving. I wish I could thank every person a second time for what they contributed to the list above.

ENTJ - I am bringing order to chaos. -- Borg Queen

What is engineering to me?

A Compass or a Map?



The above TED talk from Joi Ito has reminded me of a recently intriguing period of time at work. A few weeks ago at work everyone employee in the IT department was asked to take a DiSC profile. For the sake of simplicity the DiSC is variant of the Meyer’s Briggs test, and similar to the Primary Colors test I was so fond of when I was in my High School Outreach program.  I get a similar Meyer Brigg result every time I take one.

ENTJ - I am bringing order to chaos. -- Borg Queen

This test comes at a very interesting time when all new initiatives have been put on hold because of trust issues between what the business wants and what IT has been delivering.  Just for reference sake I’ve only worked here for a few months, so the issues precede my arrival.  A coworker of mine was particularly intrigued by his results and decided to share the section about how he should work with others.  I thought perhaps I would too.

The resulting conversation was more insightful than I wanted to give any sort of personality test credit for.  While I scored somewhere in the neighborhood of “I think I can do that!” and my coworker landed in a much steadier category with a focus on precision.  I’ve learned a lot from this coworker, and I am thankful for the time I’ve spent slowing down and paying more attention to what his opinions are.  He’s helped me understand the value in double-checking my work in my head, and doing a little research before I start offering up my time to research possible solutions.

I was surprised when during the course of conversation we reached his definition of engineering, vs. my own.  I’ve always thought of engineers as a focal points for designing solutions to challenges and executing them.  They are the people to have the ideas, be trusted to come up with solutions.  HIs definition was different than my own, but not unfamiliar.

He believed that it was the job of an engineer to create a defined concrete repeatable process.  We are both solving issues, but his focus is on the planning and designing of a solution to make it repeatable long before you start implementation.  What good is the solution if it isn’t correct before you push it out the door?

Because I work in IT I hear a lot about Agile development, the idea that you should get a working concept as soon as possible, and build from there.  I realized that this is how I approach problems.  It’s easy for me to identify some process or system that could be made more efficient or fixed in some way.  I can picture the end goal in my mind, communicate it with people that are interested and set about executing whatever steps become necessary to get from point A to point B.  Sometimes I have a plan, often I do not.

I really appreciate the Compass vs. Map analogy of these two varying approaches Joi Ito was talking about.  There isn’t one approach that is inherently better over the other, and their utility depends on the nature of the challenge being addressed.  What is important is something else my DiSC profile let me know.  I value collaboration more than other people with my same result set.

I wonder what my coworker will feel after watching the video.  I recognize the importance of paying attention to the methodical way he works, as I hope to be able to provide solutions as best as I can.  For as much as I dislike the pigeon-holing an assessment like the DiSC can be, I have to be thankful for the conversation and new insight I’ve gained from it.

 

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